If you feel like your husband doesn't love you unconditionally do you think it would last?

My husband is in the military and use to be real cold with me. When we first got married we moved in together. I couldn'tget a job and we had separate accts. I never had any money and he never gave me any. Then a year later we finally shared finaces. He made me feel like i was walking on egg shells all the time. Like saying things i did was wrong like using bleach in dish water, how to thaw meat...I did everything wrong. I did all the cleaning and everything and he still said i didn't clean. He would come home and just go to sleep. We never went out..and i mean NEVER........ had no Friends and never went out because i thought it was wrong. We would fight and he would just ingnore me for days.... Fighting became physical because he would bring the hateful side out of me. I would throw stuff at him and he would fight back. He punched me in my leg an left a bruise the size of a fist. Then one time after a year i had our baby it got to the bad point where he choked me. I have never been choked before so when he let go couldn't Breathe. It sounds so horrible but he changed. He treats me very well now. But i cant let go of the past. We are moving 3.000 mile away soon. I am scared ..i dont know how it is going to be. I am basing the past with the future .Any suggestions? Advice